teen struggles - eating disorders

One of the most stressful times in someones life is when they enter adolescence. This is a time when they discover who they are , who they want to be , they want to be independent , they are establishing friendship , and their bodies are beginning to develop. For many entering puberty can be very emotional , stressful , confusing , and a frightening time. Some change from childhood to adolescence with few to minor problems , but some develop eating disorders as a way to cope. Some may enter into puberty early and be subject to teasing by their peers. Many fear the weight that is gained during this time is permanent , will panic , and desperately try to take the weight off. They are not aware that once the physical changes during this time cease , their weight will usually stable off and go to their bodies natural set point without the need for dieting. Once they start losing weight people might compliment them , which would make them feel good. They may start to believe that losing weight will make them happier , but no matter how much weight is lost it is never enough and they are never happy. Going through puberty early can be very upsetting, especially if the teenager is being subjected to sexual advances. These advances can be so upsetting it may cause them to feel ashamed of their bodies, fear becoming a woman, and they may try to make their bodies go back to a child like appearance through starvation. Eating disorders are very serious when it comes to teenagers and we have to do something to stop this pain in young men and woman today.


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teen struggles !

For many teens these days , we have to face the problems of bullying , peer presure , smoking , cliques , relationships , and so much more. It is very difficult to deal with this when your going through school and trying to succeed. Many times it gets to the point in kids lives where they can't deal with the pressure and commit suicide. Alot of these problems above are the reason that so many kids and young adults these days have lost a life. It's sad to know that kids can be so cruel to the point of making someone want to kill themselves. Peer pressure is also another big thing that is hard on teens these days. Everyone wants to fit in and be in the '' cool kids group '' and to be able to do that you have to do what they do , which could mean smoking and drinking or doing drugs that could risk your life. Sometimes it's just not worth it to be in that '' cool kids group ''. Smoking is something that many have started at a young age and do it all there lives. It's very hard to quit which is why so many don't. Cigarettes are full of tobacco , a drug that is very addictive. FACT: secondhand smoke kills about 3,000 nonsmokers each year from lung cancer. So when you smoke keep it away from your children! Not only are cigarettes a problem , but also marijuana. Many teens these days think its cool but there are side effects to it. Some short term effects of marijuana use include problems with memory , and learning , distorted perception , difficulty in thinking and problem solving , loss of coordination , and so much more. Smoking isn't something you should start because in the end you WILL regret it.

Another problem teens have to face in these years of growing up is cliques. Cliques in high school are terrible because you have to look a certain way , act a certain way , dress a certain way , and even live a certain way. Kids and Young adults now-a-days judge people more than anyone ever has. It's very tough for kids to fit in because you have to do certain things to be in one group. You have the jocks , the nerds , bands geeks , the cheerleaders , goths , theater kids , and the druggies. Finding your clique could be easy or it could be hard. How does one determine which one you belong in? I say if you get along with everyone , theres no reason for cliques and seperate groups. Relationships are also very hard to deal with in high school. You think you found the perfect one for you and then it all comes to an end and your heart is broken , or the one your with is beating you. Being attracted to someone can be exciting but you may feel quite anxious , wondering if they feel the same for you. If you ask them out and they refuse you may feel rejected. You may be concerned that if people find out who you like they may tease you about it. Some people are so worried about all of this that they find it hard to even get a relationship started. Relationships can be tough but if the one your in isn't going good , get out while you can.