Friday, January 7, 2011

Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Adolescents


Growing up is a demanding and challenging task for every adolescent. One important aspect is forming one's sexual identity. All children explore and experiment sexually as part of normal development. This sexual behavior may be with members of the same or opposite sex. For many adolescents, thinking about or experimenting with people of the same sex may cause concerns regarding their sexual orientation.

Homosexuality is the persistent sexual and emotional attraction to someone of the same sex. It is part of the range of sexual expression. Homosexuality has existed throughout history and across cultures. Many gay, lesbian and bisexual individuals first become aware of and experience their sexual thoughts and feelings during childhood and adolescence. Being gay , lesbian , or bisexual isn't something new. For years people have been trying to fight the fact that this is their life and noone can change it. Some may believe you are born this way and others may believe that you make this change because of things that have happened when you were younger as in childhood trauma. Gays . lesbians , and bisexuals are not accepted in today's world because people believe that it is wrong and unmoral. I think that you are what you are and you can't change that. It's hard for these people because they try to make the best out of life but they are denied rights just because of what they believe in. Parents also need to realize that if you against your child being a homosexual then it doesn't help them at all. It's tough enough that they had to come out to the people that they love , knowing that their parents don't accept it makes it even more tough. Help your children out when they come to you with this it'll make their lives so much better!

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

teen violence


Teen violence is real , and is a big part of a teenagers life in the society we live in today. It can include things like dating someone who is violent , who slaps them around frequently to other teens in school beating them. Your child sees violence in their school everyday; many teens are using drugs and alcohol and become very depressed. This can be dangerous because they are not thinking clearly and may bring a gun or knife to school. If teen is in a bad enough state they could shoot other students or themselves, or maybe a teacher that they feel has been unfair to them. Depression can cause anyone to become violent especially a teenager.

Gang violence among teens is a growing concern; teens in this situation are subject to being shot at, stabbed, or beaten to death. Teens that are involved in gangs are more likely to commit a violent act towards another person, possibly even killing them. The longer a child lives in this type of environment, the more violent they may become. Teens also see violence in their homes, they may see one parent beaten and abused by the other, and sometimes one of the parents may be guilty of beating their teen. Maybe the other parent is unaware of what is going on or is too afraid to do anything about it. This type of teen violence is not uncommon in today’s society.

The best way to help prevent teen violence is by not allowing it in your home, treat each other, including your teen with respect and courtesy. By doing this you set good examples for your teen, these examples will help teach your teen how to treat others with respect. Talk to your teenager; let them know you understand there is a lot of violence surrounding them. Let your teen know you will be there, and be supportive if they ever need you. Try and stay a part of your teen’s life, and if you notice any odd behavior, talk with your child letting them know you are there for them.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

suicide in teens

When a teen commits suicide , everyone is affected. Family members , friends , teammates , neighbors , and sometimes even those who didn't know the teen well might experience feelings of grief , confusion , guilt , and the sense that if only they had done something differently , the suicide could have been prevented.

The reasons behind a teen's suicide or attempted suicide can be complex. Although suicide is relatively rare among children, the rate of suicides and suicide attempts increases tremendously during adolescence. Suicide is the third-leading cause of death for 15- to 24-year-olds, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), surpassed only by accidents and homicide.he risk of suicide increases dramatically when kids and teens have access to firearms at home, and nearly 60% of all suicides in the United States are committed with a gun. That's why any gun in your home should be unloaded, locked, and kept out of the reach of children and teens. Ammunition should be stored and locked apart from the gun, and the keys for both should be kept in a different area from where you store your household keys. Always keep the keys to any firearms out of the reach of children and adolescents.

Suicide is a serious subject and should be watched over at all times.